Gone are the days when the internet was used for business and work only. Making friends through the net is the most happening trend! With increasing internet usage, the trend of internet friendship has become popular.

I can’t see you!

It is not easy to maintain and nurture a friendship with someone you cannot see or feel. Without physical presence of the person you are chatting to, the chances of the friendship lasting forever remain slim. Others believe that not being able to see their friends as an advantage. Those who suffer from low self esteem find this helpful. Or it’s just simply the excitement of having a mystery friend!

Do not be deceived!

The chances of deception in an internet friendship are very high. Any anonymous person with a computer can log on as somebody else, and make friends with you for all the wrong reasons. It is therefore important to be careful with your personal details. Remember that at some point you may both want to take your friendship to the next level by meeting each other. He or she may turn out to be the complete opposite of what you consider a friend.

Keep an open mind!

Stalkers do exist! Here are a few tips to keep you safe when making friends online:

• Do not reveal personal information like your number, address, your parents’ professional details, passwords, etc.
• Stop the chat if you feel the person is asking for too much detail on your personal life.
• Don’t disclose anything personal about your friends and family.
• If you feel someone is not genuine, do not accept his or her friend request.
• If you feel it’s time to meet, consider bringing a friend along.

Ok, so it is worth it?

Yes! What better way to meet new people, connect, laugh, share and have a good time!